Building a Community with Social Media: 3 Things You Must Know

Does your blog foster community?
Does your Twitter stream grow your tribe?
Does your Facebook page create relationships?
Social media has great potential to create a sense of community around your business. And it’s one of the things new (and seasoned) business owners ask about the most.
Before I divulge my 3 pillars of social media community building, I think it’s important to define this thing we call “community.”
Community in social media goes well beyond blog comments or Twitter followers. It goes beyond “likes” on your Facebook page or open rates on your mailings.

Community is about a sense of shared purpose.


Before you can hope to build community on your blog, you have to consider the purpose and direction that you hope to foster in your readership. You have to identify the sense of belonging your ideal reader – or community member – desires. Your ideal reader is looking for kindred spirits, a touchy feely term for knowing that those around her are like-minded in regards to business, health, spirituality, parenting, or whatever topic your blog is about.
Once you’ve determined the shared purpose you’ll be building your social media presence around, you can set about building the sense of community you desire.

First Pillar: A community needs a leader.

Communities are rarely formed by a band of equal parties. A great community requires a strong leader. It’s the leader’s job to maintain a sense of purpose and a clear direction. It’s also their job to take a clear stance on powerful issues and unpopular ideas.
Do you think of yourself as a leader?
When was the last time you blazed a new trail or shared a strong opinion? When was the last time you lead by example, using a personal story to illustrate a point?

But being a leader means more than just using a strong voice.

You can use social media to project a sense of leadership & authority as well:


  • Use Twitter to spread a simple idea.

  • Ask questions & engage people about their answers.

  • Issue a challenge.

  • Use Facebook to solicit photos, links, or opinions.

  • Share links from around the web but forget about the usual sources.

  • Introduce people to someone they don’t know.

Seeing yourself as a leader can be a daunting task. But projecting that sense of clear direction is a powerful way to attract customers, influence, and opportunities to your brand.

Second Pillar: Use feedback to shape your blog.

There are lots of well-loved brands who receive comments, emails, and tweets and don’t do anything with them. They go about their merry way, never thinking twice about how they use social media.
But that won’t work if you’re looking to build community.
You don’t have to respond to every blog comment or follow all your readers on their social network of choice to create community. You just have to use the feedback you’re given.
If you find your customers struggling with a particular problem, if you get the same question more than once, if blog comments make you rethink your position on an issue or idea, use it to build a better community.
In the past, I’ve reposted blog comments, shared email conversations, and outlined how my thought process was changed through reader interaction. Although it’s a great place to start, small interactions with customers aren’t what ultimately creates a sense of community around your brand.

Customers want to know that they are helping to shape the content & products you provide.

They want to know that you’re thinking about them.

Third Pillar: The best communities require an invitation.

If you move to a new neighborhood, you don’t immediately feel a part of the community you’re now living in. It’s not until the neighbors coming knocking on the door to say “welcome” and tell you about the next community activity that you really feel a part of things.
Do you invite your readers to become a part of the community you’re building on your blog?
Do you extend an invitation to your Twitter follows to join the conversation? Do you solicit other opinions & ideas on your Facebook page?
You might do this through responding to comments from new readers. Or creating an autoresponder for new mailing list subscribers. Or asking community members to be on the look out for new faces.
You might invite people in by actively soliciting comments, constantly asking questions, and posing topics for discussion.
You might plan activities: Twitter parties, Ustream broadcasts, or free ecourses.
Or you might create a sense of invitation much more passively by providing links to your most popular articles, letting people know where to find you on Facebook, or asking for reader submissions.
Creating a sense of invitation on your blog can be a powerful tool. It helps readers know they’re welcome and points them to places where the sense of community is already well-established. It helps to create a network of kindred spirits and like minds.

Don’t wait for people to start talking to you or to each other, don’t wait for community to establish itself. Invite people in.

Building a sense of community is a great way to help your blog stand out from the crowd. It helps to make your site more of an experience and less of a bookmark. Once you’ve established a community, you not only have a rewarding blogging experience but a powerful tool of influence for building your business & helping others.
Of course, social media (and its community) are not your business.
So how will you harness the power of community to rock your business?
Solicit feedback.
Mobilize a sales force.
Ask for connections.
Request testimonials.
Building a community gives your business a strong tool for research, marketing, and sales. Use it.

What techniques have you used to foster a sense of community around your brand? What techniques do you see working around the web?



Tara Gentile

Business Strategist at Tara Gentile
Tara Gentile is an author and business strategist who works with idea-driven entrepreneurs who want to do more with less. Her clients learn to lead themselves and their businesses based on what makes them most effective and compelling. Tara’s work has been featured in Fast Company, Forbes, Design*Sponge, and in the New York Times bestselling book The $100 Startup, by Chris Guillebeau. She’s a regular instructor on CreativeLive and speaks on entrepreneurship, money, and the New Economy all over the world.




  1. Clara Berta

    I love the idea of requesting testimonials, I’ve started to do that with my Yelp account and it’s working well. Enjoyed your blog on creating balance with work and taking time out to meet friends to socialize for coffee and lunch once a week, we all need that when working at home. It does become isolating and socializing is necessary.

    Thanks for the tips and I wish you continued success with your blogs. Looking forward to the next one.

  2. Tracy

    Love the idea about soliciting testimonials. Thanks for the tip.

  3. Vienda

    Wonderful post, thank you for sharing! Sometimes I feel kind of *shy* for lack of a better word, in approaching people / readers /followers. I feel it’s important not to invade into other people’s space but at the same time I understand that we have to get ourselves out there somehow! Any ideas?

    • tara - scoutie girl

      Social media, in general, is NOT a private space 🙂 Social media has given us this awesome place that is public but personal – you don’t have to hide.

      Emailing someone you don’t know with a 1,000 word request, that’s invading someone’s space. Butting into a Twitter conversation with your 140 character opinion – a-okay!

      Good luck!

  4. Sara

    GREAT post. I recently started a blog and will be referring to this post as I build my blog into what I imagine. Thanks!

  5. Ms. Scarlet Faith

    Thanks this is right on the nose for me. I am building a web site I hope to turn into a community for crafters who have a hard time getting quality traffic to their crafts they sell on the web.
    This is a big help. Know any ways to connect with people and getting them to notice ones web site and blog?

    • tara - scoutie girl

      I’m actually going to be writing a post on that for next week at my own site. BUT I can tell you that the number one thing I see people NOT doing is: asking to connect with people!

      Don’t underestimate the power of a simple, direct question. Ask specific people (your target audience, influencers, etc…) to connect with you and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the results!

  6. Lori Ferguson

    I don’t know if it’s going to work yet because I just created the post today, but I asked for fellow bloggers and handmade artists to submit posts to me so I can feature them on my blog each week. I really like the sense of community I’ve found and want to help out fellow artists as much as possible.

    • tara - scoutie girl

      Hi Lori! Soliciting guest posts is a great way to build community. It creates a real sense of ownership in the space you’re providing.

      Good luck!

  7. Heather Allard


    Such a fab post – thank you!

    One of the coolest community-building techniques I’ve seen is Jason Fried’s ( Wednesday “office hours”. Every Wednesday, customers could call him between 3-5pm and chat, ask questions, get info, etc. I don’t think he does it anymore – but it was cool. 😀



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